A Critical Friend of a Friend

 

I have come to realise that every year of university I am going to hear these questions:

“What’s PR?”

“What exactly does that include?”

“Oh cool Public Relations, what’s that?”

Nobody quite knows what it is, but with reason because PR is a very broad sector and two people employed under the title of a PR professional might have very different responsibilities depending on their organisations. This uncertainty of what I study however is what presented me with a situation that got me contemplating a career specialty after university life.

A friend of mine introduced me to a friend of his, and he had basically been networking for me. His friend needed a pitch worded correctly and persuasively for a project he wanted to do. To begin I was a little skeptical and I was not entirely sure if this was a public relations task nor did I feel I was in any place to give a peer advice. I soon met this guy and politely introduced myself and we got down to me finding out what exactly he needed my help for.

When I review how the meeting went I realised that I seemed to put on a different persona but also that I enjoyed consulting with this guy. I simplified what he had told me in a way that he couldn’t then critically assessed if his goal was achievable by asking him questions. At points it seemed as though I was probing him because every question would be “ok, but why?”.

At the end I set him tasks of what needed doing. I felt like I had achieved something or that could have been a job… but I just wasn’t sure of what it would be called.

 

More than just religion

In my church we had the occasional youth days throughout the year, I loved it.

I always found myself more focused on it than school. I enjoyed when we would dance and it would be in sync. Sometimes I had to remember that we were children and that I couldn’t be as much of a perfectionist because it might come off as bossy.

Sometimes a friend and I would ask or be asked to choreograph a dance together and I would have my ideas for certain sections but would get stuck on other moves and ideas of how to transition from one to another. That’s when I discovered the benefits of teamwork. I was humbled by the ideas of my partner. As good as I may be at something the input of my partner or the rest of a group can actually be priceless.

I think there’s several things that add up to having good teamwork skills and one includes the ability to acknowledge the value of the contribution from those around you, listening to others ideas. Each time we all had to work together with to sing or dance, I felt this skill improved.

Church was not just religion for me it was working together as a community.

Time is of the Essence

I already know that I’m a serial worrier, even when I have all the time in the world.
My mind always views the bigger picture and the size of how much I have to do and not breaking it up and doing it bit by bit.

So when time is of the essence and I have almost ran out of time, I revert to a common but negative thinking pattern.  I start to wonder how many words per hour would I have to do to finish a four-figure word count in 24 hours and when 12 hours has passed and I’ve only completed 200 words I begin re-calculating. If you’ve done this too you realise, you never account for showers and food and sleep you become superman while tweeting things to reassure you like “Sleep is for the weak!!” and seconds later realising you are weak human.

In those times you can only imagine my stress levels and yet! it happens over and over and I can’t help but question myself and wonder;

“When will I learn?”

The answer is now.

Now that its second year, now that I am almost handing in assignments late.
Now that my quality is taking a hit because I could beat procrastination.
Now that my panic attacks are increasing because I’m stressing.
Now that I realise opportunities won’t wait for you and neither will the PR industry.

PR is not a nine to five job and you’re responsibilities do not finish when you leave the building. It will require me to manage my time better and take care of my body so my body can take care of me.

I Talk to Myself

I know, some say that talking to yourself is the first sign of madness and it could be said that the mad people tried to say it was the first sign of sanity. We’ll never know. (Oh but we can, Google exists)

But lets just say that we’ll never know, madness or not I’m going to talk to myself.

Most of us are aware people learn or go about doing work in different ways. But it’s a shame that people still do the textbook way because they don’t know their most effective way.

By all means if the textbook is your way great, but if it’s not, why are you still doing it?

Well I would like to think I’m breaking away from that mold.

I always knew that I had to read things more than once to get it, sometimes I would read a page of a book and you could ask me what I just read 2 seconds a go and I would have no idea. It was not good. Silent reading (that’s not for personal reasons) is not for me. If I remember writing it however, I had a better chance of telling you what it was.

But that right there, telling you about something, that’s what worked for me. If I had to explain something to you, I understood it better because I had to put it in a way that you understood and the light bulbs (more than one coz I’m bright like that) would switch on while I tried to put it in a way that you understood.

So I remember best by sound, if I’m genuinely listening that is (and not just pretending).

Thus! I’ve started (always have been) talking to myself. I have bought myself a dictaphone and I vocalise what  I want to say and transcribe it as I play it back to myself. Granted what I write is only a first draft but it’s better than me sitting at a computer just staring at it.

I think it works at it’s best if I’m somewhere and I can’t write what just came to my mind.

I’ve learnt I work best:

With pen and paper over typing. I write it down then type it up.
Reading physical things over Ebooks and online newspapers.
Remember things better by saying it out loud and talking to my awesome self.

LG Google Nexus 4

NEW PHONE :) Yay

So this evening I ordered a Nexus 4 and so far I am happy with my decision. I didn’t know much about it before today but now I do, I’ve researched I’m keeping tabs and I’m hearing good things about it.

Look at it!!!

Nexus 4

Nexus 4 (Photo credit: Gadgetmac)

Anyway the point of me making this post is to just rejoice in the fact that I will have my first android phone and all the apps to come with it, every social network app including WordPress and you will not able to stop me blogging.

I definitely believe that the devices you have an effect on how much you do it and how much value it.

Welcome

Getting my blogging act together. I’ve pressed the reset button on my social networking.

Updated my Linkedin, my @riannapowell twitter,  rye-anna.tumblr com (which will now be purely original posts and mostly of creative this i do) and the same goes for this one.

So many of you may recognize the url, but there are no posts anymore… support helped me clear them :)

This blog will be a mixture. It will mainly be about Public Relations, it will have posts that will be marked and moderated by my tutors. It might sometimes just be articles on things I’m finding interesting or worth writing about.

Stay tuned :)

 

- Rianna Powell